I haven’t written in a week! What?! Now, that’s unheard of. Sorry, guys! Em and I are doing well. This past weekend, we went shopping and swimming. We didn’t do anything too crazy. We went to dinner on Thursday, then to visit my parents afterwards. I went to a Bachelorette party this weekend. I was home by 930pm. It really wasn’t my scene and I did not have fun at all. It’s hard being amongst a group of people you don’t really know. Being honest, I thought most of the girls were bitchy. I tried making conversation, but they were not very receptive. The one even stated that she works at the same company as me. When I said that I worked there too and asked what area she was in, she blew me off. I was sitting RIGHT next to her. I asked two separate times if I needed to dress up and was told no, that I didn’t need to wear a dress. Low and behold, every single girl was dressed up in dresses. I had no idea we’d be outside in 95 degree heat either. There I was, wearing black pants. Both girls who told me that I didn’t need to dress up were literally in NICE dresses and heels. What the hell? On top of that, I’m not invited to the wedding and I was not invited to a bridal shower. I received an invitation in the mail for an after wedding party at the bride’s mom’s house. When I read the invitation, I thought the bride and groom were just doing a small ceremony with just family, then having a party. I asked my best friend about it and she told me that she was invited to the ceremony. She is much closer to the bride than I am, so it makes sense, but why invite me to your bachelorette party then? I would assume that event would strictly be for people invited to the bridal shower and wedding. I wouldn’t invite just anyone to my bachelorette party. Anyway, I’m not going to her after wedding party. I was so uncomfortable at her bachelorette party. I’m not putting myself through more of the same. I’m definitely not going to sit there amongst bitchy girls who are getting drunk either. I’m especially not wasting any babysitting services to attend that either. If it were that important that I attend, then I’d be invited to the wedding. She should share that day with the people closest to her. I know I sound bitchy now, but I’m no trying to be. It just was awkward. If I’m getting a babysitter, then it’s going to be for people I want to spend my time with and doing something that I want to do.
Outside of that, I’ve just been working and doing a lot of BeachBody business stuff. I’m still working out and eating correctly too, which I’ve grown to love. I’m consuming my Shakeology daily too. I love having energy and being able to chase Emerson around more. He is so wild, guys. He’s just into everything that he shouldn’t want to be into. I know he’s just exploring, but it can be quite overbearing at times. I’m sure it’ll settle down as we go along. I just hate having to say “No” so damn much.
My nephew is FINALLY coming home from California today. His flight landed at 9:15am, so my sister should be able to pick him up soon. That entire situation has been a nightmare. Her ex tried to tell her that Isaiah couldn’t fly without a social security number and threatened my sister over it. We all know that’s a lie. She withheld giving it to him because he’s shady. Who knows what he really wants it for. If he wants it that badly, he can file for one. We knew he was lying though. Isaiah doesn’t need his social security number to fly. He threatened to keep Isaiah and not send him back over it. It’s just ridiculous. On top of that, he didn’t have my nephew do his summer homework, so when he gets home, that’s what he’s got to spend his time doing! He failed him educationally, and now my sister has to be the bad guy. It’s ridiculous and this guy still puts my sister through pure hell. He’s remarried, moved across country, and started a new life. Go be happy. I don’t get why he constantly has to mess with her. He refused to give her flight information until an hour before they boarded. Why?! It was my nephew’s very first plane ride. He was scared and was asking me all kinds of questions before he left. They took a bus to California, but flew back, so my nephew has never flown until last night. My sister was a nervous wreck and wanted the flight itinerary just to make sure everything went smoothly for him. Her ex had to be a real jack wagon and not give it to her. I don’t know what he gained from that. He’s just an immature baby. I absolutely HATE him and I’ll be helping my sister file to put tighter guidelines in place before my nephew goes back there. This guy makes his own rules and doesn’t abide by the court order. He thinks he’s “the man” when he clearly is not. Things are going to change because no one should have to worry about their kid THAT much when they are just going with their other parent. I just can’t wait until she picks him up. Then, we can all stop worrying. He is just a hostile individual. I have no idea why either. He’s the one who decided to end things with my sister 3 years ago. He found someone else, then got married. Why are you so mad at my sister? It is stupid. I will take being a single parent ANY day over having to deal with that bologna.
He hasn’t paid any child support in two months either, but he’s so hell bent on my nephew playing football this season. Football isn’t cheap at all. I don’t understand why he thinks he can dictate to my sister when he isn’t around to see the games anyway and he isn’t paying anything for it. I cannot stand him. He thinks he’s entitled to boss my sister around and make decisions for my nephew. Just because you have your child 5 weeks out of the year and you don’t pay your child support, doesn’t mean you can tell her how to spend her money. My parents and I are purchasing all of my nephew’s school uniforms, shoes, backpack, socks, and underwear. He thinks he can dictate how things are going to go. I don’t think so. Go take a seat, son.
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